Depending on their age, open family discussions are one method to support kids through this early time. Sometimes it makes more sense for kids to learn about their parents’ divorce. If this is the case, be sure to reassure your kids frequently that they will always be loved by both parents and that your family will always exist. The presence of two households will mark a distinction. If they have any worries, such as the necessity of keeping a relationship with both parents, address them. Make sure your kids are aware that they will always have a relationship with both of their parents and will never be left alone. Tell your youngster that none of your child’s relationships with the other parent ends with a divorce. The parent-child bond will survive the dissolution of the marriage. For young children (ages 3-5), brief, concise explanations work best. You can explain a little bit more to older children, but not excessively. Keep in mind that kids don’t have to comprehend everything at once. Another crucial lesson for children is that they are not responsible for your divorce and cannot save you from your spouse. Reiterate to your child that you would do everything in your power to maintain stability for them while the concept of parents splitting up is still novel to them. This is typical; it’s their means of feeling secure and confident about the future. Your responses should be concise and consistent.
