Speaking about one’s ex and the reasons behind the breakup reveals a lot about the speaker. It indicates that the person doesn’t look in the mirror or have made any effort to better themselves if they talk badly about their ex, saying things like “they were crazy, narcissistic, sleeping around, and it’s all their fault.” They assign blame. The victim is them. Someone who accepts accountability for their role in the relationship is what you want. They agreed to date that individual. This implies that they bear half of the blame for the partnership. The same is true for you! It speaks a lot about your healing process and the level of responsibility you are taking to make sure you don’t have to repeat that lesson how YOU talk about your ex-partners. BYE BYE if you sleep with a man before he has developed an emotional attachment to you. Sleeping with a man who is not emotionally linked to you will not make him become emotionally tied to you; that much is true. However, there is no set time frame for when this happens. To be honest, he’s probably going to say, “That was easy,” and turn to leave. Males enjoy being the chasers and having a sense of accomplishment. If getting you into bed was simple for him, there’s a chance that he questions both your ease with other men and his own specialness. It’s best to wait and go cautiously, I promise.
