Although I don’t claim to be a relationship expert, I think that the above divorce rate would decrease and families would be closer if more couples agreed upon and upheld a set of important family values. It is my duty as a guy who takes my responsibilities as a father and as the head of my family seriously to foster a culture that values respect, love, trust, unity, and pleasure. You must take responsibility for it if you want your family to be close. Whether you realize it or not, you are a leader if you have a family. You are a leader whether you are a man or a woman, a parent or not. You are co-leading if you have a spouse, and you are the only leader if you are a single parent. We constantly reminded our customers that leaders have three qualities: vision, action, and spirit while I worked as a business coach. To put it another way, you have a clear idea of where you’re going and why you’re going there, you’re determined to take the necessary steps to get there, and you’re doing it in a way that encourages others to be and do their best. Take a long, honest look at yourself in the mirror and decide what kind of leader your family deserves, and that can be your first step in taking charge of your household. What kind of companion does your partner deserve? What sort of parent are you giving your kids? What kind of existence do you merit? You cannot leave the future to chance as the head of your family. Lead by example. Your immediate surroundings rely on you to do so.