Divorce is a very personal choice, and there is no one “right” time to do it. However, frequent infidelity, physical, verbal, or emotional abuse, a severe lack of intimacy or connection, ongoing conflict and communication problems, and a sense of being caught in a destructive cycle are some common indicators that a marriage may be beyond saving and that divorce may be warranted.
Indications to Take into Account: Adultery: Cheating, or infidelity, can seriously undermine a relationship’s emotional ties and trust. Abuse: Emotional, verbal, or physical abuse can be extremely dangerous and may be a warning that a separation or divorce is necessary. Lack of Intimacy: An ongoing absence of connection and emotional or physical intimacy may be an indication of a developing rift and possible marital discontent. Communication Breakdown: A marriage may be having problems if there is a lack of readiness to discuss key issues or if communication has become dead or extremely strained, with regular disagreements. Lack of Agreement on Crucial Issues: Resentment and a sense of unfulfillment may result if there is a fundamental disagreement on important life decisions, like money or children, and neither partner is prepared to make concessions.
