Plan frequent in-person or virtual catch-up meetings to invest valuable time in actively fostering the friendship. Don’t wait until it’s convenient all the time. Talk honestly about the relationship’s pleasures and annoyances. Be a good listener and avoid letting little irritations fester. Express gratitude. Regularly let them know how much the friendship means to you. Send heartfelt notes or presents. Birthdays and other special occasions don’t have to be the only ones. Keep your word. Don’t make arrangements or promise favors you can’t keep. To increase trust, keep your word. Recognize that when you and your friends change, so may your priorities or interests. Together, adjust to new stages of life. Give each other room. Respect each other’s personal space and limits, as well as the desire for occasional alone time. Surprisingly, time apart can make relationships stronger. Don’t multitask or use your phone when you’re together. Whatever you are doing with your buddies, give it your all. Celebrate milestones, festivals, and birthdays with a personal touch. Share and encourage significant life events.
